To live a well balanced, rewarding life of our dreams by day and sleep restfully at night.
When I was a child we learned a prayer that we sang, giving thanks to God. It went something like this:
Baruch atah Adonai, Thank you God!
Thank you for my mommy, thank you for my dad-
Thank you for my……
I can hear the tune in my head but I don’t remember the rest of the words. Essentially, we sang a list of things that we were thankful for. We sang about the blessings in our life. We acknowledged and thanked God for them.
My childhood religion happened to be Reformed Judaism. I am sure that no matter what religious background you were brought up in, you may remember something from your childhood too? A bedtime prayer perhaps? Giving thanks at the dinner table?
The practice of gratitude is so important and powerful. I believe life just works better when we come from a place of thanks and we are mindful of our blessings. Life is so rich! Let’s be thankful for each day.
I encourage us today during our quiet reflective times to express a prayer of thanks to God, the Universe, or whatever spiritually works for you. In your journals, you can write down a list of things you are thankful for. You can think of them during a meditation or while taking a walk. You can sing them to a tune like I did as a child.
The feeling of gratitude can show up in the way you go about your day today: your stride, how much you smile at others, how kind you are to other drivers on the highway etc.
I feel so blessed and thankful for many things on this morning.
Baruch Atah Adonai, Thank You God!
Debra : )
Counting your blessings:
Your turn: In your journal, write down a list of all of the ways you are blessed. A nice touch is to add “thank you” after you acknowledge each blessing. This is a wonderful meditation as well. For example, “My family loves and supports me. I am blessed. Thank you” or “Today I learned all kinds of new things about the publishing industry. I am blessed. Thank you”.
What we focus on grows. What we appreciate appreciates. Focusing on our blessings and then feeling and expressing gratitude for them is very powerful. It is an affirmation for all the good things you have in your life already and will only manifest more good to you.
This is a wonderfully positive state to be in before bed time. I recommend it.
Sweet dreams,
Debra : )
Goodnight small children, their parents, and friends.
Goodnight to all those who worked hard and tried their best.
Goodnight to humble beginnings and rewarding finishes.
Goodnight to the hopes and prayers of people with loved ones serving overseas.
Goodnight to beauty.
Goodnight challenges.
Goodnight blessings.
Goodnight.
May this day bring you:
Have a delightful day!
Debra : )
When I get in one of my funky down moods (which does happen from time to time), one of the quickest ways I get myself out of it is to think about things in my life that I am thankful for. It gives me a different perspective. Self pitying is a weak and not very constructive way to spend one’s time. Focusing on gratitude and our blessings, however, is quite empowering.
Writing gratitude entries in our journal is a great way to start or end the day. For years I have owned a neat little book called The Simple Abundance Journal of Gratitude by Sarah Ban Breathnach. It’s a simple book, really. There are a few inspirational quotes in it and basically some lines to write down a few things that we are thankful for every day of the year. I don’t do it everyday since I have other journals that I write in, but when I think to I will turn to whatever day it happens to be and write the year and a few of my current blessings. I have had this Abundance journal since 1997 so it is a fun record of my life for the past 13 years.
What are you thankful for? What we focus on grows and what we appreciate appreciates.
Have a splendid day!
Debra : )
It is so important to focus on the things we appreciate about our lives rather than the things that we are not happy about.
This may take some training and time especially during those times that we are really stressed out and feel like nothing is working out for us. So even if you had a really crummy day today, what are you thankful for? You are breathing, are you not? You have the gift of life. That is incredibly awesome. Do you have a roof over your head? Food in your pantry and refrigerator?
You get the idea. No matter how miserable and victimized we may think we are, we can always think of something to be thankful for. Getting in the habit of a gracious, thankful mindset will have profound positive consequences in your life.
Remember: what we appreciate appreciates!
Get out your journal tonight and write down as many things as you can think of that you feel thankful for.
Sweet dreams.
Debra : )
The sports world lost a beloved figure Friday when former UCLA coach, John Wooden, past away at the Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Center in Los Angeles. He was 99. Coach Wooden was a legendery basketball coach, leading his players to win a historical 10 NCAA championships. He was also well respected for his humility, wisdom and life philosophy. Coach Wooden often shared his Seven Point Creed which he says his father gave to him. I would like to post it here because the values in Mr. Wooden’s words are very much in alignment with much of what I write about here at the Warm Milk Journal.
Here it is:
Source: Florida Times Union, June 6, 2010
What we focus on is what we get in life.
What we put out there we attract and manifest in our lives.
What we appreciate appreciates.
What we bless comes into our life.
I grew up in Hawaii. An ancient Hawaiian philosopy, Huna, teaches that what we bless we bring into our lives.
For peace of mind and restful sleep, try this:
1. Bless anything you see that is asleep (a partner, a pet, a stranger snoozing on your bus, commuter train, airport gate, or airplane)
2. Bless anything that appears to be peaceful to you: another person, child, baby, animal, the sky, trees, ocean, a garden, etc.
3. If you hear music that is relaxing or peaceful to you, bless it.
4. If you see in a person’s smile peace and serenity, bless that person and his or her magnificent smile.
5. If you read or hear words that bring you peace today, bless the source of those words.
6. If your bed and linens and pillows and blankets bring you comfort, bless them.
7. If your bedroom soothes you, bless it.
8. If there is a fragrance from your herbal garden, your cooking, your home, the cologne you or someone else is wearing, the candle(s) you are burning, your bubble bath, the massage oil you and your partner are using, the flowers in your home, the fur of your beloved cat, the smell of a baby, child, loved one- any smell that gives you a feeling of love, peace, joy, and serenity- bless it!
9. If there is a food or beverage that is nurturing and calming your body, spirit, and soul with its warmth and good nutrition, bless it.
10. If there are people in your life that support you and give you peace, bless them.
11. when you are watching a tv show or movie and there is a character snoozing away, bless them
12. Whenever you catch someone yawning, bless them.
13. Whever you feel a calming breeze on your body when outdoors, bless it.
14. Whenever you feel the warmth of the sun and it feels so good and relaxing, bless it.
15. Whenever you think of memories that give you a feeling of peace, bless them.
16. Recall times in your life when you slept very well at night, and bless them.
17. If there are particular sounds you hear that relax you and make you sleepy such as frogs or crickets at night, the white noise of an air conditioning fan, etc., bless these sounds that give you peace.
18. Are there particular colors that soothe you? Bless those colors…
Bless you, dear Warm Milk Journal reader….
Goodnight
Debra : )
We have so much to be thankful for.
As you begin or end your day today, take a deep breath in and think about all the things you have to be thankful for.
Breathe out anything that is not serving your greater good.
Get out your journal and write down at least ten things that you are grateful for right now.
Tell yourself “I am blessed!” “My life is so rich”