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Be a guest blogger here at The Warm Milk Journal!

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I would like to offer you an opportunity to submit a guest post for The Warm Milk Journal. Our readership continues to grow and is now getting over 11,000 visitors from around the world a month. We have hundreds of followers on our Facebook page and at this writing, 16,461 people following us on Twitter.

I will share and market your post as much as I would my own. If your post is published here, I expect you to do the same.

A few guidelines:

1. Familiarize yourself with our site first. Our content is a bit eclectic. We welcome anything that supports living a well balanced life by day and sleeping restfully at night. Most posts are pretty short in length.

2. Sample topics may include anything to do with: insomnia, anxiety, health and wellness, journal writing, what makes us happy, how to relax and overcome stress, spirituality, meditation, poetry, travel, bedroom design and decor, etc.

3. People I would like to hear from: any person who is challenged and has solutions for above topics, people from the health and wellness industry, medical providers such as: doctors, nurses, counselors, yoga instructors, massage therapists, chiropractors, etc., hospitality industry (hotel managers or B&B owners), travel industry, mattress companies, sleep aid products, feng shui experts, etc.

4. Note, it is fine that you have a product or service but please offer content of value to our readership. I will not publish anything that is strictly a marketing piece.

5. Your submission needs to be an original post (not published on your own site or anywhere else).

6. Interested? Please email me: Debratech@msn.com. Attach your article via an editable Word document. You may include a brief bio, link to your site, and a photo you would like me to use.

This blogging journey has been a tremendously rewarding one. There is nothing like feeling passionate about something and sharing it with others. I feel very blessed to be sharing this experience with you. I am excited to see what comes of this. We are never alone and we can always learn from each other. I think it will be wonderful for you to be able to share here at The Warm Milk Journal and for our readership to enjoy new content from different voices.

Happy Writing!

In Peace,

Debra :-)

Let's share this adventure together! I look forward to hearing from you. Cheers!

Let’s share this adventure together! I look forward to hearing from you. Cheers!

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Eleven things to think of when the lights go out (to get to sleep quickly)

Ideally, we have sufficiently exercised during the day,

not had too much caffeine or eaten too close to bedtime,

and not have subjected ourselves to violent or overly stimulating movies, news broadcasts, or video games after 6:00 pm…

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When it is bedtime we want to think of things that calm us.

It helps to take a hot bath, then slip on something very comfortable.

I love my sleepwear! I have satiny pjs and night gowns, flannel pjs for the cooler nights, and my beloved plush green fleece bathrobe…

When the lights go out, I have several things that I like to think of (depending on my mood).

In no particular order, I like to focus on:

1. The color blue. It is my favorite color and it is very soothing…blue ocean waves, blue flowers, blue sky….

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2. My husband John and how much I love him

3. God. When I focus on God I feel safe, loved, and very secure.

4. Focus on my breath and the comfort of my bed, blankets, pillow, and sweet husband next to me.

5. A favorite memory

6. a wonderful smell (such as apples, cinnamon, and spice or lavender). There are pillow mists available out there that are nice. I love the ones from Bath and Body works or you can make your own…

7. The colors of the rainbow

8. A favorite view from nature (from on top of a a mountain, ocean, in the forest..)

9. This sounds silly but sometimes I drift off to sleep very quickly if I think of something technical such as how to change something on a website.

10. My many blessings

11. A trip or vacation that I am looking forward to.

I like to drift off to sleep with a smile on my face and in my heart knowing that I am loved, safe, and have a great life!

In Peace,

Debra

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If you are losing sleep because you have a partner who snores, you need to read this!

Not feeling well this morning because you did not get much sleep last night? There are very few things worse in life than not getting our sleep. If your insomnia is caused by a snoring partner, then you have landed at the right place.

Snoring is a tough one. Besides not getting your sleep, tension can develop between partners, not to mention the loss of intimacy if one partner has to sleep in another room. My husband and I just last year were in this position. We were newlyweds and yet due to my husband’s snoring, he was spending more and more time on the couch. I hated it.

We tried the usual things (those nasal air strips, different sleeping positions. etc). Nothing worked until John went to see an ear nose and throat specialist (same doctor who removed my daughter’s tonsils last year), and he recommended a product called Puresleep.

From the first night, it worked. I have not been woken up due to my husband’s snoring for close to a year now. It has been wonderful. It is also very nice to have my husband back in bed with me.

If you or your partner snores, do check it out with your doctor to rule out any underlying health issues that are causing the snoring. Then, do yourselves a favor and get Puresleep.

Note: I am not receiving any kind of compensation for promoting Puresleep. It is something that my husband uses for his snoring and it works! I wish the same for you.

In Peace,

Debra

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How to get a good night sleep and purchase the best mattress. Some great information from Ergomotion’s Chris Romo: An exclusive interview

What do we need to do to get a good night sleep? How do we know what kind of mattress is best for us? These are some questions I recently asked Ergomotion’s Chris Romo…

Hi Chris!

Hi Debra!

What do you think is the most important thing people can do to get a good night sleep?

One of the first things experts will tell you is that there is no one “magic trick” to guarantee deep, restorative sleep. Not only do different age groups need different amounts of sleep, but sleep needs are also individual. Just like any other characteristic you are born with, the amount of sleep you need to function best may be different for you than someone born of the same age and gender.

In my opinion, good sleep strategies are essential for restorative sleep that you can count on, night after night. By learning to avoid common enemies of sleep and trying out a variety of healthy sleep-promoting techniques, you can discover your personal prescription to a good night’s rest.

If you have trouble sleeping, several changes in lifestyle can help you regain a satisfactory sleep pattern. Experiment with some of theses strategies:

• Never oversleep – This is the most crucial rule. Sleeping late for just a couple of days especially on the weekends is enough to reset your sleep cycle, hence “the case of the Mondays.” You’ll be getting sleepy later and waking up later.

• Don’t sleep with electronics – They may distract you and rob you of sleep. Also, light from the LCD screen on your smartphone or tablet inhibits some of the vital hormones that help you drift off.

• Be smart about napping – A short 20-minute nap during the day has proven to give you more energy, alertness, and reduces stress and the risk of heart disease by 34%.

• Keep your bedroom cool – A room that’s to hot can be disruptive. In fact, sleep researchers suggests that a hot sleeping environment leads to more wake time and lighter sleep at night.

With so many different types of mattresses on the market, how do people choose what to purchase?

Oh, the million dollar question. I believe that one of the most important things to do before making the investment is to educate yourself. The array of current technologies in the mattress industry is dizzying and if you’re not properly educated, you will be more likely to give in to aggressive marketing jumbo and will not select the mattress that caters to your individual needs.

Now, we can’t tell you what mattress will work best for you, but we can visit some of the latest trends in the industry to help you make a better decision that will most certainly effect your waking hours.

Some of the newer mattress “formulations” includes:

• Memory Foam – The most popular out of the bunch, memory foam is comprised of petroleum based polyurethane foam. It is in a class of its own for reducing motion transfer and will provide great weight distribution. This type of mattress would be great for someone who has a partner that moves a lot during the night. The synthetic properties of this foam does trap a little heat and will “gas” the first few weeks of ownership leaving a faint chemical smell that dissipates over a short time.

• Latex – One of the newer trends, latex mattresses are created using a vacuum-mold Talaylay latex process creating a structure of even rubber cells. The durability and the natural aspects of the rubber are appealing to some. However, some people may have an allergic reaction to a protein found in natural latex and users of pillow top innerspring mattresses should be aware that latex mattresses have a very different “solid” feel that may take some time to get used to.

• Gel – Gel mattresses are the newest things on the market. They use gel, similar to what is used in gel comfort insoles. There are not many providers offering these products, but appear in a number of forms. These mattresses stay cool and have excellent conformation properties but limited consumer and product testing make this a somewhat risky purchase.

• Hybrid – Until recently, the choice of mattress designs and materials have been pretty limited. Today, manufacturers are offering all sorts of variations: innerspring with latex tops, latex with comfort tops, and other combinations. The extended options are great but you will need to rely on your own impression and tests of the mattress since not all the hybrid combinations have gone through consumer testing.

• Inner Spring – An oldie but goodie, the innerspring mattress was invented in the late 1800′s and gained vast popularity in the 1930′s. The innerspring mattress consists of the components: the spring core, the foundation and the upholstery layers. These beds breath extremely well and there’s a model and style for nearly every taste and budget. They do have a reputation for sagging and are less durable than their foam counterparts.

Tell us about your products and company?

Ergomotion is the fastest growing adjustable bed manufacturer in the United States, and is the only company that specializesexclusively in designing, manufacturing and marketing adjustable beds. Longtime product designer, Alain Clenet, developed the company in 2005.

After a successful international career in automotive design, Alain was looking for a new professional challenge. As a Frenchman (and the father of four) he had considerable familiarity with beds. He started researching the adjustable bed industry. “I realized there was an opportunity to infuse style and high-quality design into the field, to make adjustable beds not just functional but also a source of pride for the owner,” says Alain.

Six years later, Ergomotion is one of the leading creators of adjustable beds in the world. We are proud to have customers that include the most prestigious brands in the business.

Our bases are designed with the highest level of aesthetic appeal in mind. They feature whisper quiet motors, wireless controls, massage, and were designed for use with traditional headboards and bed frames, making it an easy transition from the standard flat foundation.

What type of people would benefit most from an adjustable bed?

An adjustable bed can be useful in a lot more situations than most people realize. While commercials and advertisement usually target senior citizens and those with limited mobility, adjustable beds are a great option for anyone who needs something more comfortable and accessible to sleep, work and play in.

So who can benefit from an adjustable bed? The simple answer is, anyone. “The demands of the bed have changed, what used to be only a place to sleep has now changed as a place to watch TV and work. With new demands comes new innovation to support the spine in more than just a sleeping posture. The Ergomotion is the perfect bed to accommodate the demand we put on our spines while in bed,” say Dr. Mark Brisby D.C, A.T.C.

Aside from providing sustained spinal posture in bed, the adjustable bed has proven to benefit people from almost every walk of life. We have heard testimonials from our customers that claim the Ergomotion adjustable bed had been an invaluable part of their daily life. The Ergomotion has assisted countless women before, during, and after their pregnancies, people recovering from surgery, and even provides the incline required for people who are suffering from sleep apnea.

Sometimes the hours at the office are just not enough, so people are spending more time using their bed space as a workstation. Plus, most people’s work involves digital technology and with the rise in popularity of Netflix, Hulu, and Apple TV, people are spending considerably more time in bed.

Thank you, Chris. I know my readers will find this information very informative and helpful.

I hope so. It was a pleasure, Debra.

If you would like to learn more about Ergomotion, you can click on their website at:

www.ergomotion.us

You can also see who did a guest post on Ergomotion’s blog recently! ;-)

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It was one of those sleepless nights… five things that may have kept me up last night

Fortunately most nights I do pretty well. So long as I do the things we talk about regularly here at The warm Milk Journal (take care of myself, stay centered, etc.) I sleep well.

Last night was not one of those nights. Every now and then I do have a really bad night. What causes these sleepless nights? It will be different for everyone. For me, a list of reasons may include:

1. Watching a violent or overly exciting movie or TV show right before bed (my husband and I watched Men of Valor last night).

2. Active bladder

3. My husband being restless himself

4. Thinking about my work day (especially tough coming off a relaxing three day Labor Day weekend) Sigh…

5. Feeling too warm

Now, I don’t feel terrific this morning. I will be leaving for work in a little while. I know, however, I will be okay. One night of insomnia won’t kill me. I will, undoubtedly sleep well tonight.

If you have these kind of sleepless nights frequently I encourage you to get some help. Start by keeping a sleep journal or diary to see if any patterns surface as to why you are having trouble sleeping.

If you or a partner are staying awake because of snoring you will want to visit your doctor to rule out any more serious health issues (such as sleep apnea). My husband last year visited an ear nose and throat surgeon. His health was fine (thank goodness) but he was sleeping so loudly he ended up on the couch most nights. This doctor recommended a product called Pure Sleep and it worked! (*note, I am not receiving any compensation for recommending this product to you. My husband and I have experienced first hand how well it works).

If you have not been sleeping well lately, I really do feel for you. It is not fun. Please know you are not alone. Try not to stress about your insomnia (that will only cause more anxiety and make things worse). You can check out our resources section for additional support and information.

May you have a blessed day an restful night!

In peace,

Debra

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Not sleeping well lately? Do these three things to improve your sleep

There are very few things worse than not getting our sleep. It’s really bad if we’ve had a rough night and then have to function the next day (at a job, taking care of our kids, etc).

If you’ve been challenged with insomnia lately, do these three things:

1. Skip your afternoon cup of tea, coffee, energy drink, or colas. Some of us are more sensitive to caffeine than others. We may be drinking more caffeine than we realize. For example, a few days ago, we had a particularly hot humid day here in North Florida. I was enjoying a wonderfully creative day at my computer, staying inside the cool AC. My husband the night before had made a pitcher of wonderful iced tea. I was mindlessly sipping on it all afternoon as I was writing. I was so jazzed and alert all day and into the evening. I barely slept!

2. If you are losing sleep because a partner snores, I strongly suggest they try PureSleep. It’s an appliance that they wear in their mouths and it works! My husband and I had stopped sleeping together because his snoring was so bad. An ear nose and throat doctor he consulted with recommended this product. It worked from the very first night he used it. That was several months ago now. He has not snored once. It’s nice to have my husband back (we are newlyweds after all). *No, I am not an affiliate or getting any kind of commission for promoting this product. They have a referral program for doctors and dentists (which I am not). I just want to pass this on to you.I have experienced first hand how this product stops snoring. It works!

3. Invest in a high quality mattress. It is worth every penny. Check out this updated Consumer Reports Mattress Buying Guide.

Sweet Dreams!

Debra

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15 Excellent Habits to promote a good night sleep

We need to take care of ourselves to get a good night of sleep each night.

Here are fifteen excellent habits to do regularly:

1. Eat cleanly

2. Exercise during the day

3. Spend time with people you care about

4. Work on projects that feed your passion (not just work for a paycheck).

5. Take mental breaks

6. Pray

7. Write in your journal

8. Drink water

9. Spend time outdoors

10. Enjoy the arts: music, art, dance, literature and poetry, live theater…

11. laugh

12. make love

13. try new things

14. invest in a quality mattress, pillows, and linens. You deserve and need them!

15. keep your home beautiful and clutter free (especially your bedroom)

Sweet Dreams!

Debra

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Ten ideal bedtime snack ideas

According to Dr. Michael Breus, Ph.D., Founder of Sound Sleep Solutions, foods that are high in carbohydrates and calcium and medium to low in protein make good bedtime snacks.

Here are ten ideas:

1. apple pie and ice cream (just a very small serving I would think)
2. New York style cheesecake
3. whole-grain cereal with low fat milk
4. hazelnuts and tofu
5. oatmeal and raisin cookies with a glass of milk
6. peanut butter sandwich
7. fruit and cottage cheese
8. whole grain toast and slice of low fat cheese
9. whole wheat crackers and cheese
10. a banana with a small spoonful of peanut butter

Sweet Dreams!

Source: Good Night The Sleep Doctor’s 4-Week Program to Better Sleep and Better Health, by Michael Breus,Ph.D.

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Introducing three new sponsors

I am very excited about the new advertisers you may have noticed on our website. I’ve researched and tried different options when it comes to advertising on The Warm Milk Journal.

I have a few goals in mind:

1. The Warm Milk Journal needs to support itself from different areas of revenue (advertising is one option).

2. If I put advertising on this site I do not want it to be overly distracting for you, my readers. I want your experience here to be a relaxing and supportive one.

3. The ads need to be promoting products or services that I would personally enjoy and compliment our mission of living a well balanced life of our dreams by day and sleeping restfully at night.

4. To that end, I feel good about the companies whose banner ads you will see here. Organic cotton apparel and bed linens, quality personal care products, fine stationery and journal notebooks, deliciously rich chocolate and coffee, etc. are the types of merchandise I have chosen.

5. I am open to your feedback. Feel free to comment right here, email me: Debra@TheWarmMilkJournal.com, or you can always find me on Twitter and Facebook

6. I believe in full disclosure and transparency: I have an affiliate business relationship with these companies. For my fellow bloggers and website owners out there, I highly recommend PepperJam Exchange.

Here are a few of the advertisers that I would like to introduce you to. I will showcase a few at a time in future posts.

For our journal writing needs: beautiful leather journal notebooks from Gallery Leather.

From the company:

Craftsmanship is a way of life in Maine, particularly here on the coast and islands that shape Frenchman’s Bay and serve as the gateway to Acadia National Park. For the past 30 years the Gallery Leather company has been part of that rich tradition, creating leather products of exceptional quality.

Over the years we have made leather goods for many of North America’s luxury brands. Now we offer a line of our own timeless designs: planners, journals, albums and organizers – all constructed by hand here in Maine, guaranteed to last for generations.

Gallery Leather, Handmade Leather Products from Maine

I think you will really like the organic cotton products for bed, bath, and baby from Coyuchi.

From the company:

Welcome, Coyuchi was founded 20 years ago in Point Reyes Station, a small, rustic town on the Northern California coast. There, surrounded by ocean and forest, beach and bluff, we created a line of home textiles rooted in nature. Our signature bedding, made from 100% certified organic cotton, soon earned a loyal following among people who nurture a connection to the natural world in their lives and in their homes.

Organic cotton bedding, bath linens and baby items are still at the heart of our collection, and we’ve added linen, cashmere and other pure, natural fibers as well. Everything we create is designed to comfort and rejuvenate – body, mind and spirit – to help you turn your home into a sanctuary.

Coyuchi.com-Pure, Natural Cotton, Linen and Cashmere for Bed and Bath

For classic beautiful stationery products, there is Crane & Co.

From the company:

The simple elegance of cotton papers have long made them the paper of choice for fine stationery and invitations. Crane & Co. has been providing the highest quality of craftsmanship to stationery since 1801. Now in its eighth generation, our reputation for quality, innovation and integrity is unmatched. At Crane & Co. we’re proud that so many important events in history have been announced and recorded on Crane paper, now it’s your turn. Crane & Co. strives to provide its customers with the highest quality invitations and stationery to help them connect with others.

Shop Crane & Co

Welcome Gallery Leather, Coyuchi, and Crane & Co. to The Warm Milk Journal!

I look forward to introducing a few more sponsors in a future post.

In Peace,

Debra

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Does your spouse snore? My husband and I found a product that really works!

My husband snores. It has been a very frustrating thing. We are still newlyweds (just coming on our first wedding anniversary). More and more John has been spending the night on the couch because of his snoring. We’ve tried various things: his sleeping on his side, nose strips, my wearing ear plugs,etc.

But nothing was really working. We both so wanted a good night sleep and I wanted my husband back in bed with me!

About a month ago John when to a local ear nose and throat doctor (same doctor who did my daughter’s tonsillectomy at Christmas time).

Well, he recommended something called Puresleep.

John was not real keen on doing surgery so he ordered this product.

What is it? It’s a plastic mouth appliance you wear at night, kind of similar to what people who suffer from tmj wear.

How does it work?

From PureSleep’s website:

The principle of PureSleep is simple: it moves your lower jaw forward, opening the airway enough so that air moves through unobstructed. No vibration, no snoring!

John has been using Puresleep for over three weeks now and he has not snored once!

It is really quite amazing. He complained of his jaw hurting at first but he seems to be getting used to it. He is sleeping quietly, we are both getting our sleep, and most importantly: my husband is back in the bed with me!

I am not getting paid by Puresleep to endorse their product. I am experiencing first hand that it works and want to pass this on to you.

Puresleep’s website: http:/www.Puresleep.com

I wish for all of you a good night sleep and having your sweetie right up next you to to cuddle with!

Love,

Debra : )

(yep, that’s me and my man. We are now sleeping much happier together. Yes!) ;-)

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