The Mew Way
Life lessons from my adorable, docile, lovable cat Mew
Living The Mew Way, like my cat does, is not that difficult.
We just need to keep a few basic principles in mind:
1. Ask for what we want (make some noise if our food or water bowls are empty, litter boxes are dirty, or if a lap to sleep on is required).
2. Look tenderly at the ones we love.
3. Appreciate fresh air and the natural world.
4. Eat when we are hungry.
5. Sleep when we need to.
6. Don’t stress about much.
7. Be a good companion.
8. Love is the most important thing! Cuddling, petting, kisses….are mandatory throughout the day.
PURR
Mew does not:
1. miss much naps
2. worry about much (except for an empty food or water bowl)
3. hold grudges
4. lack for a cozy place to hang out
5. lack for companionship
Mew does:
1. get plenty of sleep
2. has energy to do the things he wants to do during his day
3. gives his affection generously and frequently
4. care. He is a good friend, a good listener, and good companion.
5. Observe his surroundings and basks in the little things such as the breeze coming in from an open window, a soft loving lap to nestle on, and crisp papers on a desk to perch on.
Mew wishes all a blessed “Mew Way” purrfect evening.
Loyalty, the Mew Way means:
1. Always being there
2. Loving unconditionally
3. Faith
4. Trust
5. Not running away
6. Purring with delight just because you are near
7. Gazing adoringly
8. Tenderness
9. Knowing who fills your food and water bowls, and
10.Knowing without a doubt who loves you more than anything in the world!
Right Thinking, The Mew Way is all about:
1. limiting thinking to only what is necessary
2. keeping it simple
3. Being more than thinking
4. Being in the NOW
5. Finding very little to stress about
6. When there is a reason to stress, it is brief.
According to the Mew Way philosophy, when one has to think they will mostly be these simple (and importantly, fleeting- not lingering) thoughts:
1. Love, purr
2. Hungry, put food in my dish NOW
3. Thirsty, fill up that sink with water NOW
4. Fed. Watered. Thank you. Purr
5. Sleepy. Stretch. Yawn. Nap time
6. Pay attention to me
7. Hello
8. Love. Purr
Occasionally, situations will arise that will deem it necessary to think a bit more urgently.
For example:
1. Don’t step on me!
2. Fireworks! Thunder! Strange people in the house. I need to hide.
3. Suitcases coming out of closet. Something’s up with my people… and I don’t like it.
4. Strange kitty outside…
5. Pet carrier coming in from the garage. REALLY don’t like this development!
Even under these circumstances the thoughts of concern are brief and fleeting. They are not the cause of obsessing or worrying over time about it. When the stressful event is over, IT IS OVER. No lost sleep. No agonizing. No regret about it down the road in later years.
Mew wishes all a purrfectly peaceful day.