Rather than whining and feeling sorry about ourselves for all the things we don’t like about our lives, why not focus on what we do want?

I am human and I do from time to time catch myself in a negative state. When the pity party threatens to overtake me, here are some things that help:

1. Find something (anything!) to appreciate about my life.

2. Look around me and if I see others enjoying something I would like to have more myself I bless them and feel happy for them.

3. Remember that I am in charge of my life. I am bigger than my circumstances.

4. Having faith and KNOWING that I am working to create the life of my dreams TODAY.

A good resource that I recommend is Rhonda Byrne’s (Author of The Secret) latest book: The Power. The message is a simple but powerful one:

Love what you want. If you don’t like something about your life, don’t worry about changing the negative thing. Instead, focus love on what you want. By doing that you will create something (wonderfully) new.

Have a blessed day,

Debra

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